Stop fooling yourself in life:
You don’t have 9 lives, you will eventually die and disappear and never be remembered
So put some fire under your feet and get to stepping
Stop fooling yourself in work:
Nobody’s gonna do the work for you and if you allow yourself to be mediocre or average then your results will be the same
You won’t land into a great career by accident
Time and effort are not only a requirement but a basic necessity for your career and work to flourish
The 40 hour work week may not be enough
Leaving things to chance will definitely not be acceptable
Stop fooling yourself with Love
The butterflies you’re feeling is not love
The chemistry between the two of you will eventually fade
Like anything else, it will take time, effort and attention for it to work
There are no meant to be’s, no made for each other couples
Only two people who were lucky enough to share enough similar values and enough differences to balance each other really well
And even then, it’s not set in stone that you will be together forever
Stop fooling yourself, Cupid doesn’t exist and if he does, he doesn’t care about your love life
So you need to do whatever it takes to make it all you envision
Stop fooling yourself with family
They are not perfect, neither are you
The minute you turned 18 you became responsible for your own life
Act like it
Stop fooling yourself with money
Learn how it works if you will never have any of it
Discover and understand compound interest
Save as much as you can
Invest as much as you can
Spend with a conscious, yes you should be smart with your spending but always remember that life is equally short
Spend money on experiences
Stop fooling yourself with success
Only you can determine what it means to be successful to you
Don’t follow anyone else’s definition of it
Don’t pretend you have it before you do
Once you decide what it is, work as hard as you can to manifest it
Stop fooling yourself with failure
Every day you overlook your true desires and don’t attempt to at least walk towards them is a failure
Failure (like success) isn’t permanent
You decide what it means to fail
Make it very hard to fail and very easy to succeed – how?
You decide, you’ll know when you’ve figured it out for yourself
Stop fooling yourself with time
it’s finite – just like you
So don’t waste it
Make the most of it
And who knows, perhaps something about you will outlive your short timespan
That’s the only way to be remembered
Be well
SRZ
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